My Three Big Ideas:
- Usually, the student who is showing the worst behavior is the student who is in need of the most one-on-one time, support, connection, and healing. Back in the day, the strap was used when a student acted out or did not listen to the teacher, the strap has been proven to work eighty percent of the time as it embedded fear into the students that they would be receiving this abuse if they ever repeated the same actions. However, abuse is never the answer. What about the other twenty percent of students? What about kindness? Understanding? This way of discipline was beyond wrong, no matter what the teacher’s goals were within their own classroom. Teachers were possibly adding to the cycle of abuse one had endured. New ways of aiding a student when they act out are to listen, understand, being a shoulder for them to cry on, and being someone they can trust. Restorative justice is beyond successful within schools.
- Restorative justice is a way of ending the cycle. Students at home may experience abuse, extreme consequences, etc. When they go to school they may act out causing the teacher to react badly by sending them to the office, yelling, detention, etc., however, this turns into a horrendous cycle for the student. Abuse, yelling, being locked in their room at home, and then yelling, being sent to the principal, and being suspended for bad behavior sends them right back to their home environment. The student is never shown proper support and never once asked “what is going on in your personal life? How can I offer you support?”. By using restorative justice within the classroom setting, you are ending the cycle.
- Rather than teaching children the acts of kindness and friendship through storybooks, allow for students to learn about kindness, strength, and determination through real-life speeches and acts. Students are not able to connect to storybooks and television shows the way they are able to feel and understand real-life humans who have lived and experienced racism and heartbreak. We need to teach more than kindness, we need to teach human rights and help students understand how they can make a positive change and implement positivity and change into their own lives through others’ experiences.
My Two Personal Connections:
- I used to act out in school, especially between grades six to ten. It was a non-stop fight with my teachers, when they told me to sit down in my desk, I would sit on top of the table, if they told me to do something, I would keep my binder closed. It was a silent cry for support, kindness, and understanding. Teachers who would send me to the office or call my parents were the teachers who I continued to rebel against and I would send worse behavior their way as the days passed. The teachers who listened to me, showed me kindness and gave no response to me when I acted out, were the ones who got the best version of me. The way you treat your students is the most important part of teaching, if you cannot listen to them, why would they listen to you.
- Dr. Suess and Robert Munsch’s stories were very popular in my household because their stories were how I personally learned to read. They were easy to read, intriguing, colourful, and always cute. However, other than friendship, kindness, and how to deal with someone who was acting out, these books did not hold much of anything else. Characters portyed in the books were not children of colour or different cultures, they always acted the same and always had parents caring for them, never grandparents or other guardians. I personally feel like I would have benefited from other stories that held more dynamic and guidance into differing topics.
My One Question Based on the Reading:
- How can we ensure that we are covering all cultures, beliefs, and portions of history in a beneficial way that is not only respectful but connected to the curriculum? As well as portraying proper and concise information based on each topic.
